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E-Lust #19

September 3, 2010
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by kktscinnamon


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Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #20? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

The Rules – She squirmed in her chair as if impaled there by my finger slowly pushing in and out. “But I can tell you that on our third date, I want something a lot bigger than your finger in me.”

Consensual Nonconsent - He told me he was going to do whatever he wanted to me, and he wanted me to not give consent. He wanted to take it from me. He wanted me to say no, and the less l liked something the harder it would make him.

Love and light – So I move on, not as a submissive, but as the smart mature strong woman that I know that I am. I will credit him with changing me. Changing the way I see myself.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Confessional: Annual Reminder – In the dark, in the car, in the parking lot of a somewhat posh store, he got a fantastic blowjob as uptight conservatives drove past us.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

What’s Been Eating Emmy - A yearly test is good for most, but if you find you are playing with a larger than usual number of people, go get retested. Put yourself and your future partners mind at ease.

See also: Pleasurists #92 and #93 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationship

Adventures in Buttsex
Beginner Anal Positions
Clever Slut
Ever Changing
Jane Says: Take A2M Precautions
The Big Poly Secret – The Kreplit Famine
The P-Spot is the New Male Orgasm
Vaginal Cosmetic Surgery
What is Love?

Erotic Writing

“…is Hard to Do”
Bathroom Blowjobs
Dance of The Veil(Erotic Fiction Writing)
Erotica: A “Break In” – Fantasy pt1
Foreplay – An Erotic Beginning
Her Birthday
In Plain Sight…
Just a Friend
Loki At Play
Lydia and the Wrong Stockings
my turn
Mike & Jenny In The Bookstore
Need
On Fucking Jesus
Poem
School Detention
Trust Me
The Ordeal (Part Three)
The Heat of the Moment
The Closet
The Lioness
The Belt
The Brazilian
The Show
Voyeur ISO….

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

A New Day
Interview with Athena Hollow of Geek Girls Online
KSL’s 2nd Anniversary
My Evening Out
What Happened?

Kink & Fetish

A Drink and A Smoke
Begging, Pleading
Basement
Dangerous Rope
Day 1- Define Your Kinky Self
How To Find A Mistress
I’m Here, I’m Queer???
Kissing, is all
Leash
Punishment and an Ominous Chain
The Maid and the Jewels
Temple
the 2nd night with the Farmer
Total orgasmic destruction
What FetLife Has Done

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Day 6-Strange Sexual Fantasies

September 1, 2010
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by kktscinnamon
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neener neener I know this is all supposed to be very personal and intrusive, but I simply can not bring myself to share this particular request with you.  Oh, it’s not you personally, but that’s a very deep, very dark part of me that I don’t even really share with Kris.  So, in my opinion, that’s asking a little much.  The title of this post should most definitely be: “Day 6-I’m Totally Blowing You Off!”

To say the least, I actually feel bad about it, I mean, you all take time out of your busy schedules just to read my blog, and here I am, telling you “Neener, Neener, boo, boo, I’m not telling you shit!”, seems kind of asshatish to me anyway.  So, by all means, leave comments telling me just how crappy you think I am. 

On the bright side, I promise to make up for it by posting something else today.  Now, if I could just figure out what.

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Days 4 & 5- Kinkiness of the Past or Catching Up With Matt

August 31, 2010
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by kktscinnamon

So, I’ve been turning this around in my head for a couple of days now, and honestly had no clue where to start or what to say.  Then I somehow happened upon an old boyfriend from my high school days, and just decided to ask him.  He knew me for a very long time before we dated, and I knew he had a crush on me, but somehow the cards just never fell correctly until the very end of high school.  Looking back and discussing it with him today, I think we both realized there was definitely something more there, and we basically just blew it off.  Of course, more than 10 years later there’s not a whole lot we can do about that.  First of all, I’m very happily married to the man of my dreams, and second, well, he’s in Japan, which is way far away in case you didn’t know.

So, his response to “Hey Matt, was I kinky when we were dating?” was, “Yeah, there were definite undertones of kink, and I remember you saying dirty shit while we were fucking.” (I’m obviously paraphrasing here.)  Apparently, he caught me at the time all my kink was becoming too much for me to hold in anymore, because I met my ex husband just a few weeks after we broke up.  Believe me when I tell you, my kink definitely came out by at least age 18.  Come to find out, Mr. Matt is the little kinky slut-man himself, and it’s just funny as hell that we are both so extreme in our kinks, and never really discussed it as a couple.  Life works out funny sometimes, I guess.

To answer about my first kinky experience, well, that honor also goes to Matt!  It was also one of the most embarrassing sex moments of my entire life as well.  Matt’s mom was, well, we’ll just say, totally ok with whatever we were doing or wanted to do in the bedroom.  She was very open with me, and she let us drink and have small parties.  She was kinda cool, except that she always had a habit of knocking on the door, or worse yet, just walking right in while we were fucking!  It was usually only mildly embarrassing, but this particular night Matt had me totally tied down to the bed, and he couldn’t really get up to answer the door, and he couldn’t get me untied either so she could come in.  So, he did his best to cover me up, but it was painfully obvious she knew what was going on.  However, as many horny young people, we sure as hell didn’t let that ruin the rest of the night.

It was fun catching up with an old flame today.  We talked about life in general, what’s going on, and all the things we should have discussed when we had the chance(i.e. kink).  I think it’s always fun catching up with people from your past, especially when you can come together and talk about things you couldn’t back then, for whatever reason.  It’s funny how things could have been so different if you were never an idiot teenager.  Nostalgia Rocks!  Now, back to my real life, which is awesome.

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Day 3- Discovering Kink

August 26, 2010
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by kktscinnamon

This one will probably be pretty short and easy to answer.  As far back as I can remember I always knew I was different.  I’m not even sure I’ve ever had a fantasy at all that wasn’t extremely violent.  Rape and gang-bangs have been in my thoughts since I became interested in sex, even though I was far too young to even be involved in vanilla sex, and the more I delve into kink culture the more violent and outrageous they get.  A lot of my fantasies will most likely stay in my head, and I rarely share them with anyone for fear of looking like a total freak.  To be honest, if they played out the way they do in my head, it would not be good for me in too many ways to name, so I really have no intentions of reenacting some of them.

I suppose the way I see it, I never really discovered kink per se, it was just always part of who I am.

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Day 2- List Your Kinks

August 25, 2010
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by kktscinnamon

Okay, so today, I’m supposed to make a list of all my kinks, and I’m not exactly sure, but this could be a very long list.  We better get started!

  • Anything to do with anal play.
  • Breath play
  • Bondage
  • Caning
  • Consensual Non-consent
  • Corset Training
  • Control
  • D/s
  • Degradation
  • Fisting
  • Flogging
  • Gags
  • Gun Play
  • Hair pulling
  • Hentai
  • Humiliation
  • Intelligence
  • Internal Enslavement
  • Interrogation
  • Male Authority
  • Mental Bondage
  • Masochism
  • Masturbation
  • Mind Control
  • Mind Fucks
  • Mummification
  • Obedience Training
  • Pain
  • Play Rape
  • Predicament Bondage
  • Punching
  • Sadism
  • Sexual Slavery
  • Spanking
  • Suspension Bondage
  • Total Power Exchange
  • Vaginal Stretching
  • Violence

I know this list is no where near complete.  Some things I haven’t done yet, but will eventually.  Maybe as things pop up I’ll keep updating this list for you.

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Day 1-Define Your Kinky Self

August 24, 2010
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by kktscinnamon

The short easy answer to this is, I am the owned property of my husband, Kris.  I try really hard to be submissive to him, and seeing as how I’m the opposite of submissive in personality, that’s really hard.  We’re working on it though.   My desire is to be completely submissive and loyal to him.  Lately I’ve been going over in my mind how I really feel about being a slave, and what that really means to me.  I’m not so sure slave/property are interchangeable anymore.

I suppose I would be considered a switch, but it’s had for me to really see it that way.  I am usually sexually submissive to men, and sexually dominate to women, but I don’t switch with the same person.  I have been topped by women, but that was following Kris’ instructions.  I am 100% sadist and masochist.  I like feeling extreme sensations and giving them.  Pain, degradation, and humiliation are all part of my sexual kinks.  Of course, I don’t always want to be degraded or humiliated, sometimes it’s so much better to feel loved and respected.

We have a very keen interest, as a couple, for bondage, and study it at length.  My interest in it comes from wanting to feel helpless, and Kris just loves working with rope.  It’s a good medium for him, and helps him get into whatever role he’s chosen for himself at that time.  Sometimes he’s mean, and sometimes not so much.

I love to study anything kinky, even those kinks that I’m not all that into.  For the most part, I’ll try anything once.  The few hard limits that I keep for myself are: needle play, scat, vomit, pedophilia, necrophilia, and chopping off of limbs.  As for everything else, sure, why not?  I suppose my favorite fetishes would include: any kind of anal play, fisting (vaginal), bondage, and pain/humiliation play.

I have spent the last 2 years totally engrossed with learning anything I can about the kinky lifestyle.  There are so many things people do within the context of their own relationships.  I would have to say we are definitely a culture and influence all our own!

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30 Days of Kink

August 12, 2010
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by kktscinnamon

I totally stole this from Rayne, but I figure that BDSM hasn’t been a major theme as of late, so here we go!

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

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Pleasurists #90

August 11, 2010
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by kktscinnamon


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Get Your Groove On

August 8, 2010
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by kktscinnamon
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OhMiBod never fails to give us something with pizzazz, and the Club Vibe is no different!  This awesome bullet has more features than any toy (and possibly a few kitchen appliances) I’ve seen.  I am definitely a bullet girl, they are versatile, portable, and more often than not, quiet, so of course I jumped all over the Club Vibe!

OhMiBod packaged the lovely Club Vibe in a regular black cardboard box with a shadowy club scene at the bottom.   Obviously though, who cares about the fucking box?!  Let’s get to what’s inside!  Once opened, you’ll find a very nice lacy thong, the pink corded bullet, a remote, a split cord, 2 AAA batteries, and a very nice velvet pouch with the OhMiBod logo.

The thong is “one size fits most”, and unlike a lot of manufacturers who use that label, it actually fits me very well.  It’s not a cheap thong either, as a matter of fact, it’s become one of my favorite pair of panties to wear.  It washes very well, and after about 2 months, I’ve not seen any wear at all, aside from a little color fading.  The velvety pouch isn’t padded (doesn’t really need to be), but it is a good quality pouch.   The seams on the inside are done perfectly, and I love the satiny drawstrings.  Everything that is included(even the thong) fits wonderfully inside, and it slips easily into any drawer or hiding place.

Let’s get to the meat of this review already, whatdoyasay?

The bullet itself is made of black abs plastic with a groovy hot pink polyurethane coating.  It’s 1/2″ in length and 3/4″ in diameter, and even though it does have a permanently attached cord, I would not recommend inserting this into any orifice, as it could damage the cord and totally screw up your bullet.  The remote is made from black plastic, and has two buttons on the front (an “X” button for stop, and a circle button for go).  There is a connection on top for the bullet, and a connection on the bottom for the split cord as well as a volume function wheel.  On one side there is the settings (ambiance, manual, and mp3) dial, and a clip for your pocket on the back.  The kit comes with 2 AAA batteries that fit very nicely into the back of the remote under the clip.  The split cord makes it possible to plug in your mp3 player, iphone, or ipod, and your ear buds as well, so you can jam while you get off!

Okay, so, I wasted NO time trying this baby out, and let me tell you, it’s got some power for such a little guy.  The manual mode has 7 different pulsating patterns, and mp3 mode vibrates to the sound of whatever music you prefer.  I liked metal music and trance music.  Ambient mode was by far the coolest, but I had to sit very near the speakers for it to work.  I can see how going to a club or concert would work though.  We played around with our voices and stuff as well, but that didn’t really work out that great, you literally have to make very deep or loud noises.

Even those of us who don’t go to clubs or concerts, can be entertained by this bullet.  I love to wear mine while I’m doing housework, or watching TV.  It doesn’t slip out of place, and is easily hidden from any little ones or surprise guests that may come over.  The remote is so easy to use that you can turn it off in a split second if you need to, and it’s so quiet no one would know that you were wearing it.

Cleaning the club vibe is easy, just was it with a little warm water and soap or your favorite toy cleaner.  It should be noted that the Club Vibe should NOT be completely submerged, and you’ll want to check that the wires are in good shape and no water is getting in.  Club Vibe is compatible with any lube, but I prefer water-based just to be safe.

I would like to thank Good Vibrations for providing me(free of charge) with the awesomest bullet vibe EVER, in exchange for an honest and detailed review!  Good Vibrations carry high quality sex toys, and have amazing customer service.  Head on over there and check out what they have to offer.

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A New Blog!

August 2, 2010
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by kktscinnamon

I thought long and hard about whether it would be a good idea or not to link to my new blog here.  I’ve decided that I can definitely trust my readers here to respect that I am actually sharing my real life there.  Feel free to comment over there, and enjoy. Without further ado, I give you:

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